I wanna Be spoiled 👄 I tell them that I’m looking for a mutually beneficial arrangement with someone I feel like I can really talk to and genuinely enjoy spending my time with. I’m looking for an allowance, and in turn hope to have a lot of really awesome experiences together. It’s not vague, but it’s not overly detailed either. It’s enough to know that 1) I’m looking for financial assistance and 2) I know what I want. Simply saying “an arrangement” is so vague.